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3 ways to deal with everyday sadness

Being sad is not being depressive , this is a nuance that we must make clear from the beginning.Another important aspect that we should admit is that sadness is something that catches us all from time to time.when, and what we don't like to prove.The reason? For many, to be sad is to appear a certain weakness, a decay that in the eyes of others shows lack of character or warmth.

It is not true .Who admits his sadness and recognizes it He is able to cope with it.Who hides or conceals it with other aspects, through masks such as irony and even frustration, creates scabs that will prevent him from moving forward with courage.

Sadness is a common enemy that you have to know how to manage .It sometimes appears without our understanding why… How do I feel this way today if I had a great day yesterday? Maybe it's the weather, maybe that punctual psychological discomfort is due to a bad diet, to be under defenses, it can happen...Or it may also be that without knowing how or why, today you have to remember things from yesterday.The brain is capricious, and our mood sometimes goes up and down as if we lived in a ferris wheel.

Is this bad? Not at all .You are only human, a normal person who, like any other, must face their daily sadness .We give you 3 keys to achieve it.

Understand that everything it happens...And everything happens for something

It is not that it is destiny, it is not that something specific had to happen to you because it was marked by some special design.At all. Everything that we It happens fulfills a function: learn.

Sometimes sadness embraces us one day without knowing the reason very well.Perhaps some aspects of yesterday have arrived in your memory that we have not yet fully accepted, which we have not integrated.It can happen.

3 ways to deal with everyday sadness

Therefore, we must understand that in this life everything comes and everything happens.In fact, no pain is eternal, in the end, it hurts a little less. And although memory does not forget what it is better to assume and accept everything that has happened, and then "let go" integrating the learning.At every step you will be a little wiser and more cautious.And even if you visit the sadness, this will only be a shadow What to escape telling you that now you look to the future, and that you want a thousand new experiences for your tomorrow, a thousand congratulations.

Everyday sadness demands a moment for yourself

Don't avoid it, don't hide your thoughts hiding them with other things.Sometimes, when that sadness knocks on our window it is for something.Let her in and offer a few moments to talk to her.To talk to you.

  • What happens to me ? Do I feel sadness or is it anger? Am I frustrated by something?
  • What do I have in my mind? Every emotion can be translated into a word, so use a notebook if you want to make it easier for you.
  • Now think about the following: What could I do today to feel better? Write a few ideas and put them into practice.

3 ways to deal with everyday sadness

Sometimes, avoiding and hiding everyday sadness brings more consequences than anything else.So stop and face it.

The sadness is overcome with new illusions: get out of the routine

There are times when the sadness has no explanation.Simply "cheer up", it is not necessary that our mind That memory of yesterday has come, that lost love, that failure... Sometimes sadness comes and settles with infinite discouragement, as if a cloud settles in our mind.

3 ways to deal with everyday sadness

What can we do?

  • Give yourself the whole day to yourself (if you can).Give yourself a walk, a visit to a friend, an afternoon of cinema and coffee.
  • Make plans for the near future and hope: I will save To make a trip this summer, I'm going to take a chance and tell that person that I like, I'm going to sign up for that course that makes me excited…

Everyday sadness, sometimes, evaporates with new dreams to fulfill, and taking care of ourselves a little more.that they always appreciate.

Do we put it into practice? If you liked this article, discover how to be happier and freer every day.

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