Sounding with our ex-partners is very common . Sometimes, it may have been years, and even a whole "eon" , when suddenly, one night we return to to meet again with that sweet love of childhood or, why not, with that person who "pulverized" our heart and whom we do not want to see, but even so, our brain likes to offer us that subtle torture in inexplicable occasions.
If you wonder if there is any study that can reveal to us the reason for this reason, we will tell you that in dream matters nothing is safe, nothing is quantifiable or even less likely to be studied in a laboratory. Thus, we can only take advantage of the logic and that psychological perspective with which, find explanations for these daily enigmas.
Do you accompany us to discover it?
Sound with our ex-partners: Has it happened to you? Why is it?
Sounding with our ex-partners is something that, whether we want it or not, will always happen.However, to find a more or less acceptable meaning it is worth noting the following factors.
Live a complicated or confusing moment in the present
It is possible that today you already have another partner, and that few things remind you already that love of yesteryear that so much happiness or unhappiness brought you.Now, that your conscious world does not remember it does not mean that the unconscious has forgotten it.

- Sometimes, we may be going through a problem with our current couple.Something like that can make our brain make us sound with that relationship from before with which, relive similar moments , or on the contrary, compare both people to make us think things like: "This is the same as I lived before", "it is clear that I am now happier and worth fighting for this relationship since it is the most important I have ever had."
Attend to your present but be sensitive to your previous experience to make decisions.Where your dreams can be of great help.Sounding with our ex-partners can sometimes be something useful.
Those days of stress when the brain tortures or relaxes us
You are spending a few days of great stress at work or with your studies.You feel the anxiety invading your body and your mind, it is hard for you to sleep, and when you do it, suddenly you find "El", with "Ella". Has it happened to you?
The chemistry of our brain is affected by the level of cortisol in blood, by adrenaline...That chaos of neurotransmitters will make your dreams can be of two types:

- You can have relaxing dreams, where your brain craves to give you calm, so it can take you to a very pleasant moment of the past that you shared with one of your ex-partners.One of those in which when you wake up, you almost want to meet again with that person.
- On the other hand, the opposite may happen.At a higher level of stress, a greater sensation of anguish, and from there we sound with that love of the past, of which we keep such bad memories.
Outstanding things that weigh on the mind
This fact is really common.When we end a relationship we don't always do it in the best way. There are no explanations, there are no goodbyes and there are still many conversations we want to have and we didn't have.

Loose ends are anchors looking for ports where to moor and rest. From there, it is customary to sound with that ex-partner with which, we maintain a discussion, or whom we see pass before us without him or her seeing us.He ignores us while we want to stop her to speak, so that he offers us the answers we didn't have.
Sometimes, Closing circles is never easy, which is why it is always necessary to say goodbye face-to-face with sincerity, although it hurts. the truth will allow us to turn the page more maturely.
Now tell us...Has it happened to you? Have you ever sounded with your ex-partners? Do not hesitate to leave us your opinions and remember our article about the onironauts, people who can control their dreams.Incredible!
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