How to cope with the death of your cat

Cats, like dogs or any other animal that has been part of our family, never die: they sleep in our hearts.

Now, in society the mourning the loss of a person is based in our mind and in our traditions with a series of rituals that, in some way, help us say goodbye to the loved one.

The same thing does not happen with animals , or at least it is not usual.I am sure that you have also seen yourself in the situation of having to say goodbye to your beloved pet and go to class or work with great regret.When someone asks us what happens to us, it is very Probably that n or everyone understands what you are going through.

Losing a cat hurts, because if we take good care of them, they can have a very long life and rise as authentic complices in our day to day.

Today in Lifestyle we offer you some basic guidelines to face the duel for the death of your cat.

How to deal with the death of your cat

Cats are special.They are positioned at home on their own merits, for being melindrous, elegant, capricious, calculating, sleepy, curious and beings that like above of everything, to be worshiped as kings of the house .They captivate us with their eyes and with character .Then....How to say goodbye to such a special creature?

How to cope with the death of your cat

Keep these tips in mind.

1-You have the right to grieve and express it without anyone making fun of or telling you anything. This implies that you should cry all you need.And even more, if there are children at home it is necessary to accompany them in this transit, that they understand that it is death and that they can say goodbye to their cat too.

Emotional relief is always very necessary to be able to face this pain.

2-Set a farewell Gradual. It does not matter if we opt for burning or burial.The greatest pain will come when we are at home and realize the emptiness: from corner on the sofa, from your sleeping basket, from your feeders, your toys, that window in the sun where I was taking a nap...

Some people prefer to eliminate any object that reminds them of the animal.However, we recommend that you do it gradually, little by little.It is less traumatic.

3-Do not focus your memories in moments of pain, but in great moments. The death of your cat may have been traumatic, due to old age or illness.This implies certain images loaded with suffering that may remain in our memory.

How to cope with the death of your cat

Avoid it, go back better to those moments of happiness, of complicity with your cat: when I woke you up in the morning, when He curled his tail in your legs asking for something, when he purred you, when he looked for a corner in your bed to sleep by your side...You have millions of moments to delight in.Your partner deserves to be remembered with a smile, to honor him with happiness rather than with tears.

4-The loss of a cat is not healed by bringing another cat home the same day .There are those who, before the death of an animal, do not take too long in adopting a new one.Allow some time to pass, allow the void to cry, accept, integrate and heal itself.

No animal has the obligation to replace another's emptiness.that you adopt, if you want to do it , you must build your own place and rise as a new member in the family, as someone very special and of course, unique.

Life She is always beautiful with one or more cats at home, but everyone will say goodbye at some point, it is something we must accept and know how to face without hiding tears op esares.

How to cope with the death of your cat

Now tell us...have you suffered the death of your cat or one of them in recent times? Tell us about it, if you wish, and also discover the endearing story of the stray cat and "his owner Bob."

Image: Chris Isherwood, James Whitesmith, ashleywatkins

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