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Beware of the day after Valentine's Day if you have a partner!

Just three years ago, several studies by two US legal reference companies called Trien's Fee and Avvo.com appeared that corroborated what many psychologists already knew: Couple breakups suffer a brutal increase of 40%, every February 15 .We echo some of the interpretations I made at the time Richard Komaiko, the co-founder of Attorney's Fee and add some current considerations about the reasons that lead to thousands of couples to break their relationship right after Valentine's Day.

Beware of the day after Valentine's Day if you have a partner!

«On the day of San Valentin (many couples) take stock of their relationship.»

Some of us are surprised that there are couples who do not evaluate their relationship together every so often, which does not keep the communication channels open, but according to Attorney's F It is quite common for members of a couple in crisis to remain in a waiting state until a trigger, such as Valentine's Day, clearly shows that something is wrong in the relationship .

Beware of the day after Valentine's Day if you have a partner!

San Valentin is a date on which those who maintain a supposedly monogamous and stable relationship and who are being unfaithful to their partners feel especially guilty: « the person who deceives the other is caught in the middle, he has to satisfy his partner and lover ».They also tend to feel more regrets about their personal situation.

Beware of the day after Valentine's Day if you have a partner!

Valentine's Day is one of those dates on which t is supposed to We have to show love (maybe that is the reason why, the next day, on February 15 there is one of the highest peaks of ruptures of the whole year ) but, what is there from the rest of the year? A lasting relationship is not based on a wonderful day out of every 365, but a constant demonstration of affection.Well, nobody said it was easy.

And for many couples, Valentine's Day becomes that moment of reflection in which the balance of the relationship goes "to pay." As if An annual income statement will be discussed, the members of the couple look into each other's eyes and discover that they are together for a thousand reasons that have nothing to do with themselves.

Beware of the day after Valentine's Day if you have a partner!

It seems incredible that this happens in the 21st century, with such a lot of information but the truth is that now more than ever we get married because we fall in love and, when the crush happens, many of us have already taken care of chaining us to hundreds of properties together to make it more difficult to separate.Some of us already have a mortgage, dogs or even children in common.

We don't realize that because of many properties we share If our evolution as individuals takes us away from the other part of the couple, not a million mortgages, or the love of a thousand children, you can fix it .Cultivating love is not a day's thing nor does it have to do with adapting (so much), yielding or enduring, but loving, respecting and communicating, being grateful and carrying out all those positive actions carried out by lasting couples on a daily basis.

Did you like the article? ? We have more surprises for you because if you want your Valentine's day to last a lifetime, these are our tips for your partner to last.

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