Sometimes, we use the word "immaturity" in a very arbitrary way.And it is even possible that you yourself have been labeled as an immature person in an unwise way.An immature person is not someone that the bed is not made in the morning, for example, or that it is somewhat messy.
Nor are those who choose to stay at home reading a weekend before going out with friends.The immature personality is more complex and has as its basic essence, not taking responsibility for one's own life to be happy , capable and independent, and in turn, offer happiness to those at your side.
However, we invite you to know the main features that characterize the immature people in the following points.Are you with us?
1.If you are aware of yourself
Knowing yourself and having a clear and realistic image of our interior is essential to advance in life in a mature and integrated way.Learning from past mistakes, integrating new experiences, controlling and properly managing our emotions , make us grow and at the same time, get to know each other better.
I know how I will react to certain situations, I know what suits me and what types of people I should avoid to feel good.The immature person, for his part, Lucky life to see what happens, exposing oneself to situations without having an authentic knowledge of oneself.
2.Emotional instability
It is clear that none of us are an example of absolute virtue, that we all have our "soon" and our character. Now, properly managing emotions, controlling anger and rage, channeling them, and having good empathy that makes us recognize their emotions in others as we do in ourselves, is essential.
The immature person is like the child who does not know how to control his frustration. Reacts with spite when he is offended or when he does not get what he wants.They love us when we do what they want and turn us away when We do not fit their goals or, simply, tell them the truth.
3.Loss responsibility
Immature people do not always have a stable partner, they always tend to prioritize They find it difficult to share, negotiate, dialogue, put themselves in the shoes of their partner.
They can be very fun to be almost like children, it is incredible to share certain moments with them However, soon, we realize that does not deliver what they promise , that they get bored soon of things, that they assume no or very few responsibilities.
4.They do not have a life project, or they change every two hours.
Today they have in mind the business of their life.And for this they mobilize an endless number of people.However, a few days later they lose their interest and discard it.Soon, they think it is best to take a sabbatical year, but then they realize that they have no money to survive, then they ask someone under the promise that they will return it shortly.This is something that never happens.
His life projects are like castles of cards, that rise and collapse at every blow of wind, at every little whim that sometimes, expect others do for them.
5.Changing values and very variable moral and ethical criteria
Today they look forward to the defense of animals, but tomorrow they think it is a waste of time.They may debate with you cie rta idea of morality, certain value, however, after a few days they contradict it because at any given time they are more interested in defending otherwise.
Their values change because they have little roots with themselves, lack self-concept and are guided more by the immediate need, so it suits them at some point to get some benefit.
Maturity does not come precisely with the years, but with the inner learning that the person is doing over time.It is knowing how to integrate knowledge, is knowing how to have a clear will where emotions are well managed.No one acquires great maturity by reading a book, or blowing the candle of his 40 birthday.Maturity is worked, integrated, balanced, and this is an adventure that is perfected day by day.
And now tell us do you know any person immature in your social circle? IF you liked this article you also know the anancastic personality.
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