literature has generally taken over love , and it is often said, with black humor, that marriage is his grave : at the moment when a man and a woman decide to join in the sight of everyone and with all the commitments-social, sexual, loving, economic...-, the passion vanishes.Because the marriage , According to Engels , and probably taken from some other social thinker of the time, it is neither more nor less than the way to secure property and inheritance.
Philosophies aside, almost all cultures have their own marriage rite: the way in which both the woman and her money pass into the hands of a stranger, or in which the stranger's money enters the family through the woman.
Marriage in ancient times
The ancient Egyptians , for example, considered that both members of such a relationship were equals , unlike the Greeks , who maintained a non-equal vision of the sexes.In Platon's banquet , there is talk of love, and for the Greeks it was only possible among equals (men); the woman there rather had the function of reproduction.

Among the Sumerians marriage was a contract between the woman's father or guardian and a specific man.He could terminate the contract whenever he wanted and without asking her.
Most of the societies in the East did not see the woman as a legal adult, so they depended on their parents, and then on their husbands.
Actually, until recently, women in almost no culture were independent.
Jews in the past...
The ancient Jews practiced polygamy (the right to have more than one wife).Current people marry under a jupa (in Hebrew means protection), which is a piece of cloth held by four stick s, which symbolizes the future home of the couple.After two ceremonies ( kidushin and nesuin ), separated by the reading of the ketuba ( the nuptial contract) comes the breaking of the cup , which the groom does as a symbol and memory of the destruction of the Temple of Jerusalem .
Ancient Romans
If you were a commoner there was nothing more to simulate a reciprocal purchase: gifts were exchanged between them, and there was no need for large economic contracts because there would not be much money.This was known as coemptio , and most married for love, not for parental imposition.

On the contrary, if you belonged to more well-off classes, there was a very solemn form of union called confrarreatio between the patricians This constitutes the p It is the first form of union of private law and of a religious nature, since it was also presided over by ecclesiastical authorities, which in our day would be equivalent to civil and religious marriage.
Christianity
When it collapsed the Roman Empire the Church takes command of the moral in Occident e.While before God both are equal, it is not the same before human law. monogamy is imposed (although there is also the confinement or concubinage), consanguinity becomes tabu (less for royal families, only way to continue perpetuating themselves in power), and it is declared indissoluble marriage .
AnglicansPrecisely this was the reason why Henry VIII separates of the Church of Rome, because he wanted to marry other women.There were six wives of this king.
Protestants and RenaissanceWith the Reform to Lutheran the marriage is desacralized and becomes a voluntary agreement between the two registered by a religious pastor; In addition, divorce is accepted and the causes may be adultery or incompatibility of characters.
In the Renaissance the first secular interventions in marriage begin, an act that was previously governed by the church.Women under 25 and men under 30 debian have permission from their parents , and present 4 witnesses to ratify the wedding, which translates into marriages arranged by parents where very young women were handed over to older men in exchange for the dowry.
Today
Marriage as a exchange symbol has been practiced to this day, especially in families with a lot of money or power.

However, most people come together for love .And many times they don't get married, they live together without much protocol.
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