Love in people with High Sensitivity (PAS)

Not long ago we talked to you in Lifestyle about the characteristics of people with High Sensitivity.As you know, as experts explain, we could say that almost 20% of the population has these characteristics.

People with High Sensitivity

Feel your own and other people's emotions in a very intense way, enjoy the moments of loneliness in a special way , as if the world found its meaning in these moments of peace with oneself, are one of the few examples that define this type of personalities.

In turn, the children with high sensibility, are also those creatures that do not fit very well in classrooms where emotions, feelings, are not yet recognized or respected and lead them to live a childhood of previous difficulties.

Physical pain He also feels with more hardness because his threshold is also more sensitive, and the emotional , overwhelms them to the point that every day, they have to face expressions such as “It's that you take everything tremendously!” If these dimensions already present a certain complexity, how do you imagine the process of falling in love and maintaining a partner for the PAS person? We explain it to you.

I am PAS and my partner is not

This is the first fact that in itself, I can already establish certain distances in the couple.The person PAS is will realize many more aspects that your partner will not even see or feel. That look that at a given moment deviates from our face, can be understood as a contempt, or as a symptom of who is in front of us «does not want us like him/her».

Love in people with High Sensitivity (PAS)

Actually, something that we should be clear about is that people who are not PAS don't understand how complex the world of sensitive personalities is, there where any nuance has a great importance, however, and despite the fact that there are many individual differences, it is always very difficult to fit into a relationship that the person PAS, or Fry authentic complicity and union.At least "at the level" that he/she needs.

The person PAS lives love in a more intense way

If the PAS person feels art, reading, music, drawing or poetry in a rewarding and enriching way to an extreme that no one else can understand...How will you live that overflowing emotion as it is love? It is something so intense that sometimes it "out of control."

It is like living in a carousel of contradictory emotions, and sometimes even painful.The most complex thing is undoubtedly to have the feeling that nobody else You can understand them. The person PAS lives a life from the heart, in a world that does not seem to fit.

Overflowing joy, and deep sadness

The PAS personality tends to have a tendency to depression.When they suffer a failure, when the couple shows them a contempt, or does not offer them a love according to what they or they offer, they can live a very deep state of sadness and helplessness.

Love in people with High Sensitivity (PAS)

The most complex thing is to see that in emotional relationships with PAS people, emotional and personal investment is usually unbalanced.PAS people give everything, are offered to the other person with all their soul and all their hopes… Forgetting even themselves.And it is a danger.At the moment the failure appears, that emptiness will be very serious and difficult to manage.

People with High sens ibility can develop fear of love

In Lifestyle we already talk to you about "phophobia" or the fear of love.This is because there comes a time when they are already very conscious of that emotional cost , and therefore in order to avoid suffering, or to invest body, soul, hopes and dreams in someone who cannot understand them or simply offer them everything they need, choose to close the doors of his heart.

One of The most important aspects that the PAS person must understand, is that love is part of their lives.High sensitivity is not a curse, nor a feature that makes them "different" .Be a Person with High Sensitivity or PAS is to have a «gift», it is not a defect but a virtue that will make them live life more intensely.

Love in people with High Sensitivity (PAS)

Now, you should also understand that if the other person does not see or does not feel things as oneself, does not mean at all that they love us less .They love us at another level and as they know, but it is still love, and as such we have to understand it.Love is not a game of strength "I love you more and you love me less." It is knowing how to live each day and get rich.And life with a PAS can be very special.

And now tell us, do you belong to the Group of People with High Sensitivity or PA Yes? How are your emotional relationships ?

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