Tips for taking the first step

The fear of being yourself is also present when trying to flirt, but you must keep in mind that a good conversation is much more powerful than your appearance and that is a weapon that you must use in your favor when it comes to approach someone else and start a conversation.Did you know someone you like but don't know how to talk to him? Do you get too nervous when you have that person nearby? Are you looking for a partner? We help you find it with these tips to take the first step without the anxiety or social phobia.

Tips for taking the first step

The main reason why you don't We take the initiative with someone who attracts us is because of the fear of rejection, but the faster we understand that this is one of many possibilities, the faster we will be able to take this more calmly to be the one who takes the initiative.

1.Pay attention to The other person's body language

This is a cliche but it is because there is a lot of truth in it.55% of our communication occurs through our body, so before making any serious movement It is convenient that you look at your body for clues to know if you are also interested in yourself.Prolonged visual contact, positive facial expression or discover certain areas of the body with or the neck or the wrists are signs of reciprocity.Another one of the clear signals is the 'imitation', which is literally when the other person adopts your body posture in a clear gesture of attraction to you.

2 Start with an interesting question

The small talk can be very inconvenient when flirting because you run the risk of not being able to take the step towards a truly interesting conversation in which your charm can be more than your physical attractiveness.Skip directly the questions that can be answered with monosilabos and take a chance with interesting questions about current events, for example, or enter the side of your hobbies and hobbies asking him what music he likes to listen to, what books that he likes to read or what activities he prefers to do outdoors.

3.Create the perfect environment

If you have already seen that the other person responds to your flirts, if the conversation It is fluid and interesting and you have no du Give that the other person is as interested in you as you are in her, it is time that you propitiate the environment for the perfect encounter through a romantic date or some scenario that ends up conquering the object of your desire.

4.Always ask permission before taking action

This does not necessarily have to be a verbal statement, but it is important that you do not throw yourself upside down without having any level of certainty that the other person She is also interested.Otherwise, what could be a romantic kiss on your head, from the opposite perspective can be seen as a bullying action.

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