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8 false myths between men and women

In Lifestyle we have presented data on whether it hurts more a kick in the testicles than a delivery.The controversy was served, as well as the differentiation between men and women.In this article we want to present some myths surrounding this difference between men and women .Are we so obviously different? Join us to discover some false beliefs that separate the genres!

8 false differences between them and them

Here come 8 false beliefs that have filled our collective imaginary.Let's overthrow them!

1.By choosing a partner they seek "sensuality", they "status"

A study conducted by the "Journal of Personality and Social Psychology" develops in 2008 which, against than expected, when studying the participants of a quick dating event their way of assessing their potential partners was not so different depending on their gender .

8 false myths between men and women

In This study found that when they met face-to-face with their "appointments" both men and women took into account in the same proportion of their physical and attractive appearance and their economic power and social position .This showed researchers that when one, regardless of gender, meets a person face to face and must evaluate it, there are no stereotypes that are worthwhile.Everything is valued, without putting features above others.

2.They are more narcissistic than they are

Unlike what it may seem, men are more narcissistic than they are .

8 false myths between men and women

Discover more in this article: Who are more narcissistic they or they? Curious is little!

3.They think about sex all the time, they don't

In 2011 an investigation was conducted, carried out by «Journal of Sex Research » in which it was studied that men and women thought throughout the day.While it is true that they thought 18 times a day about sex and they 10, they also thought many more times than they did about eating and sleeping.

8 false myths between men and women

This shows that they think of sex more than many believe and that sex is not something as and as essential in male minds as it has been sold to us .

4.They have more "intimate partners" than they do

Generally, when asked about the number of sexual partners, men usually appear as the ones with the most intimate partners , regarding women.

8 false myths between men and women

However, in 2003 the" Journal of Sex Research "conducted a study in which he made believe their participants that they were being asked with a lie detector and that they would be hunted if they told a falsehood or a half-truth.The result? They and they actually had the same number of sexual partners.

5.They want sex more "without commitment" than they do

The psychologist Terri Conley, from the University of Michigan, has conducted a study on this topic, although it is true that in old studies (1989), 70% of men accepted sudden and uncommitted sex compared to 0 % of women who accepted it, Conley has discovered something curious.

8 false myths between men and women

Apparently, when it comes to very attractive men , of someone who is familiar to them (be part of their environment) or someone famous , they are as receptive as they are when it comes to having sex without commitment.Why? As simple as that when an unknown man offers to have sex, women instinctively and inevitably they deduce that this man "is desperate" and that does not have too much sexual abilities .

6.They cannot reach climax as often as they do

Although it is true that they reach climax less often than they do, this changes radically when it comes to long-term relationships, according to a study in the book "Families as They Really Are" by WWNorton.This research consulted almost 13,000 people.The percentage of women who reached orgasm on the first night was only one third compared to men; instead, when it came to long-term relationships: 79% of women came to climax as often as they did.

8 false myths between men and women

This leads psychologists to think like, the aforementioned, Terry Conley that the fact of reaching the The climatic point of an intimate relationship depends more on the couple taking into account her needs than on a biological factor.

7.They win in terms of romanticism

Unlike what is believed, they believe much more in concepts such as "love at first sight" or "true love" than they do.

8 false myths between men and women

According to a worldwide survey conducted in 2013, a About 100,000 people and commissioned by the Crown Publising Group, 48% of the men who participated had Not in love with "first sight," against only 28% of the women who had experienced it.Apparently they are more likely to fall in love with someone regardless of the obstacles they do.

8.They are more selective than they are

According to a study by "Psychological Sciense" (2009), it is not a question of gender but when you choose or are chosen. People become more selective when a possible couple approaches them than when it is they who approach.

8 false myths between men and women

The fact that they seem more selective has a lot to do with the cultural tradition that they are the ones who take the first step. Since they are the ones who usually approach, they are always more selective.What would happen if it were the other way around? That they, when taking the first step, would go through a selection process as rigorous as yours.

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