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Is there destiny in love?

There are many people who believe that our life is not the result of a casual act, but of a destiny that spins every meeting, every act of our existence with skillful and insightful hands.The theories that try to explain this conception are not lacking either.

But within these coincidences or «causalities» it is, without a doubt, the dimension of love that most often intrigues us.Are we destined to join certain people and not others? It is something that has always interested the human being and that, sometimes, can lead us to think: If it is destiny that guides our affective partners, do we lose our own capacity for choice? Today at Lifestyle we invite you to make this reflection, but first let's look briefly at the two trends.

The theory of "causality" and the red thread of destiny

Is there destiny in love?

In Supecurious, we have often talked to you about the doctor and psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung .This was, together with Sigmund Freud, a precursor to the psychoanalysis approach and a really interesting theorist in various subjects.Like, for example, the concept of the collective unconscious and the principle of synchronicity.

  • Theory of synchronicity: for Jung, coincidences do not exist and that is why that love, for example, would not be a casual event in our lives, but rather a causality.For this author there is a certain relationship between our own consciousness and the physical environment that surrounds us .Everything will be to somehow related, forming a great conscience where the collective unconscious would also be integrated.From time to time, people feel such sudden coincidences, such as thinking a word and, suddenly, listening to it in a television advertisement.in a person and, shortly, this call us on the phone.In a way they are not coincidences, but a unique and invisible fabric that connects us all with everything.It may surprise you, but today there are many authors who relate synchronicity with quantum physics, although-as expected-Jung's theory is not well seen or accepted by science, but his concept continues to arouse much curiosity and inspire various studies.
  • The history of the red thread of destiny: We have talked about this concept previously in Lifestyle.A theory based on the tradition of East Asia, present so much in Japanese myths as Chinese The truth is that we can not deny it, it is really evocative.Segun reveals this idea, fate already establishes from the moment of our birth to that person who will be our partner.And how is this union established? With a red thread. With an invisible thread for us, that joins our meniques to the heart.No matter how much time passes, sooner or later we will end up finding that person.When that happens, we can no longer separate from it., that thread will have taken so much strength among us that if you try to separate the pain it will be insufferable.

Is there destiny in love?

Believing in destiny is not something negative, even less naive.It is always interesting know all these theories and mythologies built around this idea.However, the affective world is as complex as that network that according to Greek legend, wove the Grim reapers shaping people's destiny.

Most people dream of finding that perfect person or that true love that gives real meaning to their lives.It is a process, a long learning that, sometimes, we it forces us to go through several relationships until we find the right person, the sound person .It may be that our destiny or chance puts our man or that special woman on our way, but we must take the risk or not to start this relationship.It may sometimes not work out as well as we think, but never refuse to try again.Love is an adventure that is always worthwhile and of which you must carry the reins at all times.

Is there destiny in love?

Love, whether it be a thing of destiny, of chance or of those invisible motors that move the theory of synchronicity, is something worth experiencing.And now give us Your opinion: Do you think that people are predestined in sentimental matters?

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