6 ways to make our lives bitter

Sometimes we get bitter without really being aware of it .That's why it's important to discover some ways we have to make our lives bitter.It's not like we want everything to go wrong or be unhappy , just that our habits are not the most appropriate.

Do we learn to change them?

6 ways to make our lives bitter

Our mind, sometimes it seems to turn against us .We turn the tortilla around everything that could be much simpler.But no, it seems that it is much easier to choose the difficult path.

6 ways to make our lives bitter

Here are some ways to make our lives bitter.that you feel identified with one.

Which one prevails in you?

1.Think about the bad instead of solving it

What is negative about your life? Maybe you have that friend that you don't like how he acts or how he uses you, maybe you worry about a situation because instead of taking action you just think….

To solve all that in what What are you thinking, it is necessary to act! Thinking too much is not positive, it will make us turn things around creating an infinite loop, without putting them to remedy.Get courage and act, you will see how everything is solved.

2."An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth"

Who created this stupid saying? The "eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth" prevents us from forgiving , that we always hold a grudge and that we have the need to pay with the same currency.This will not make you happy, as it will prevent you from moving forward as a person , anchoring yourself in a negative feeling.Will you really stay that way?

6 ways to make our lives bitter

3.If you are wrong, others are too

We all have days when we are bad, but one way to make life bitter is to wish that others also be. Do you remember those moments when everyone around you laughs?

You can't stand it.In your mind you wonder if they don't realize they bother, if they do with bad intentions or if you care so little that they haven't even noticed you.See, what bothers you? That nobody cares about you? Think about how you're getting bitter without any need and how little you like to have to endure the grunt of the day.Sketch a smile and join the happy people, everything will be better!

4.When everything is going well, I start to fear

If we are insecure, at the moment when everything is going well instead of continuing in that state we start to fear .our future, to think about everything that can happen badly...It is a free way to make our lives bitter.Being cautious and aware is good, to be distressed by things that you do not know and that you may not be able to change, it is absurd.Think about what you could do with the time and energy you use in this unproductive activity.Get the most out of it!

5.Think that everyone talks badly about you

Have you been through Two people who laughed softly and thought they laughed at you? This usually happens when we don't trust ourselves, when we feel insecure and believe that Everyone watches us.

6 ways to make our lives bitter

It is normal that they are your imaginations, so do not think that everyone notices you and gossips about your outfit, your hairstyle, etc.It is not true, and if it was, who cares? What is really essential is that you are comfortable with yourself.

6.Always look for a culprit

When something has been lost or broken, what is the first thing you do? People who become bitter are always looking for a guilty person , but those who do not try to fix or find what they have lost.Again, instead of investing energy in something negative, use it in looking for the solution or the positive aspect.

"Leading a bitter life can anyone, but bitter life on purpose is an art that is learned"

-Paul Valery-

With what have you felt more identified? There are many other situations, such as not accepting a criticism and believing that they hate you, setting a goal and not enjoy it for having greater aspirations or not fighting for someone because they have never done it for you.We are not perfect and it can all happen to us, but we always have the opportunity to improve!

Sometimes we get bitter life without motives, when everything can be much easier, so: Stop doing these 7 things and you will be MORE HAPPY!

Images: Unsplash, PDPics, Jedidja

Comments

The sad story of the first Englishman who used an umbrella

Many inventors strive to find ingenious solutions to everyday problems.Most of these inventions, such as fashion, come and go.Items and utensils that seemed to remain forever have become obsolete or have been replaced shortly.That is why the sad story of the first Englishman who used an umbrella is so striking, an object that we still use today.Join us to meet her and you will discover how sometimes most He is right. The story of the first Englishman who used an umbrella Jonas Hanway was an Englishman who at the beginning of the 1750s returned from a trip to Paris with a gadget called "umbrella." Until that time, in a rainy climate like the English, no one had dared to protect their heads more than with shawls, hats, sheltering under a canopy or using some type of transport in order to travel dry on the streets s. The use of umbrellas to protect from the sun had been brought from the east and was customary in the French court.At the beginning of the 18th cen...

5 myths about creativity to stop believing

Hello Lifestyle ! Before reading the article we would like you to know a new way to discover our curious world, through Youtube ! We have a channel that we would love to be part of.You can subscribe and get to know it here-> YouTube Lifestyle! What do you think creativity is? Do you think that some people are simply creative and others are not? It turns out that there are many myths about creativity that we should forget, if you do not consider yourself a creative person, we invite you to think better, you will be surprised! 5 myths about creativity to stop believing 1.Some people are naturally creative and others are not Although certain people they spend more time doing creative things, this does not mean that others cannot acquire these skills, this is one of the main myths about creativity . This proven that there are areas of the brain that can be activated through simple actions, so if you want to be good at something you should dedicate yourself to it, ma...

Thando Hopa, the model that denounces the life of albinos in Africa

Thando Hopa is one of the few black albino models that exist in the world.Its image, attracts a lot of attention, has a halo between delicate and supernatural that fits very well in the catwalks and fashion and beauty magazines. She is South African, 24 years old and, besides being a model, she is a lawyer.Maybe for that and taking advantage of her public position, Thando Hopa takes advantage whenever possible to give voice to a terrible problem that happens in your country, and that not everyone knows. Being an albino in Africa is little more than a curse and a condemnation.They don't just have to face a sun that hurts their skin and depletion of their health, but they must also live with fear imprinted in their hearts, praying that they will not be killed or mutilated. The albinos in Africa are merchandise, like rhinoceros horns.or the ivory of the elephants.Local wizards think that the skin, the organs and blood of an albino attract luck and prosperity. Inconceivable ...

The Doe network, a project to identify corpses without names

In all countries of the world there are hundreds of corpses that have never been identified.In all countries of the world there are hundreds of people looking for their relatives who disappeared and they never heard from them again.Someone wanted to remedy this unfortunate situation and created the Doe network , a project to identify nameless corpses. The Doe network, a project to identify corpses without a name The names of John Doe, Jane Doe or Baby Doe , are used in the US In order to designate in the police field the cadavers and human remains s found that cannot be identified or to hospitalized persons who cannot confirm their identity.Doe began to be used in England in the 14th century as a fictitious name in legal matters. The creator of the Doe network is called Todd Matthews and it all started in his adolescence.When he was 17 he learned that his girlfriend's father had found a girl's corpse in the woods, wrapped in a tent. No one could ident...

What is a Deja Vu | The definitive scientific explanation

We have all experienced the incredible phenomenon of deja vu, however, do we know exactly what a deja vu is? We can say that it is one of the events that arouses most interest among people. In French, the language from which this word comes, it means "seen before". In fact, that is what deja vu .It is the memory of some experience that we felt as if it had been previously lived, however, what is hidden behind this phenomenon? In Lifestyle we want to clarify all the mysteries that hide behind the deja vu.If you want to know them, keep reading! Content Index What is a D eja Vu and the scientific explanation after the phenomenon What is a deja vu ? We've all lived that experience of remembering something we hadn't lived. What is a deja vu? It seems an easy question to answer, because we have all felt once that we live the same situation twice although, in reality, this has not occurred before, this is the phenomenon we usually know as deja vu .As wel...

The team that ridiculed the III Reich

We all know the story of Jesse Owens, the colored athlete, grandson of slaves who won four gold medals at the 1936 Berlin Olympics before an Adolf Hitler who saw the Olympic event as the perfect setting to extol Nazism and Aryan superiority.But Owens was not the only American to ridicule Hitler, the rowing team also humiliated Nazi Germany .At that time, rowing was the king of the Olympic Games next to athletics, so the German defeat was even more sounded. An amateur team Although the American university sports system was already a reality, a group of workers from the state of Washington, farmers, loggers or poachers of salmon , won over the university students and became the US representative in Berlin.An Olympic success would allow them to abandon monotonous life in their icy towns in the northwest of the country and reach the glor ia.After a hard training, before embarking the first unforeseen came: Bobby Morch, his helmsman, discovered that he was Jewish.However, he got on t...

The terrible witch camps in Ghana

They are in Ghana and although the government has tried to end them, the witch camps exist .They are a sad reality in a country that believes in witchcraft. Unfortunately, they also provide certain people with an easy way to get rid of women that represent a nuisance.Know the terrible camps of witches in Ghana . The terrible witch camps in Ghana Imagine that you are an older woman who has been widow and that you take care of your husband's assets to survive .However, even though you are in your right, someone covets your possessions .If you live in Ghana , you have it easy. Launch an accusation of witchcraft for whatever reason you can think of; someone's illness or death, bad harvest, a fire...and you, without no chance to defend yourself , will be lucky if you can run away .The instigator usually convinces several people, that fearful of suffering damage from the alleged witch, they are able to beat, torture and even lynch the woman. Sometimes i...

The Harry Potter birthday. When I was? Celebrate yours like him

Fans of Harry Potter would like his story to never end.We get excited about any news about him or his surroundings that JKRowling lets us know.We read everything that falls into our hands on the subject and even in London we are going to photograph ourselves at the 9 and 3/4 platform.We went to the exhibition about his world and we got excited about merchandising.One of the most controversial topics is that of Harry Potter's birthday : When was it? Do you have explanation that it was that specific day? Join us to find out and when we know, would you like to celebrate yours as a wizard or magician ? Harry Potter's birthday.When was it? Harry James Potter was born on July 31, 1980 .He was the first and only offspring of the marriage formed by James and Lily Potter, members of the first Order of the Phoenix, created during the First Magic War, which were killed by Lord Voldemor on October 31, 1981.Why did JKRowling choose that date for Harry Potter's birthday and n...

A stronger brain?

It does not take us full.Everyone and we all know perfectly that it is better for our health to eat healthily, than to follow the norms of the current food industry that seems to want to cram ourselves with processed foods, full of empty calories and very unhealthy.However, sometimes we are not sure what exactly the repercussions of healthy eating can have on our health. Multiple benefits Eating healthy only serves to lose weight and maintain it? No, much less.Eating healthy also serves to prevent numerous diseases such as diabetes, coronary heart disease, etc.But there are still more.Recent studies, which have been carried out by McMaster University in Canada and the National University of Ireland have shown that those who eat healthy have a much stronger cognitive health . The study involved nothing more and nothing less than 27,680 older participants 55 years with a high risk of suffering from cardiovascular diseases, and they were followed for 5 years , both of their ...

10 "unfortunate" facts that happened on Friday the 13th

The superstition linked to Friday the 13th has an impact all over the world.On Fridays and 13th it has been proven that people avoid traveling, getting married, doing business and undertaking many activities than other days ago without thinking.If you study ephemerides throughout history, there is no reason to think that on Friday and 13 more misfortunes have occurred than on any other date.this reflection, we will remember 10 "unfortunate" events that happened on Friday 13. 10 "unfortunate" events that happened on Friday 13 1.Friday, October 13, 1307 Detention of the Templars .The King of France, Philip IV, orders the arrest of the Templars with false accusations.Following this fact, they are tortured and executed and the Temple order will virtually disappear . 2.Friday August 13, 1521 This date is considered the end of the Aztec empire .End the siege of Tenochtitlan by the forces of Hernan Cortes with the surrender of the Mexica .They ta...

Lifestyle Libre

Search This Blog