The term "alpha women" is not new, nor is it a timely fashion for many of these self-help or women's fashion magazines.Not at all. This idea appeared cradled for the first time thanks to the doctor and clinical psychologist Dan Kindlon, in his book "The alpha girls" in 2006.
From his department of psychiatry in " The Harvard Medical School " began to study a phenomenon that was increasingly evident in our society.Women were-and are-gaining strength in our present, to the point of leading and many spheres that are far from the private sphere where until recently, they were relegated, linked to nurture and the care of the home.
If not long ago, and from the ethology there was talk of the alpha males, now the figure of the alpha women is exalted.Although we are not mistaken: we are sure that In your family you have a grandmother, sister, aunt or your own mother who presents these same characteristics
Valentia, courage, security person, leadership...They don't run a company, but they are an example and an inspiration to us.
Alpha women: increasingly present in our society
The popular legend says that men fear alpha women and that beta women envy them. These kinds of ideas are nothing more than stereotypes that limit all aspects that They define alpha women.They are not dominant or controlling, nor are they wrapped in an air of glamor like Marlene Dietrich.
There are many types of alpha women, some with children others without them, some very sophisticated, others with a simpler air, there are Geek, and there are still some teenagers, they point ways.To make it clearer, it is worth taking these dimensions into account.
They have a purpose: to move forward, to grow
An alpha woman thinks every day about how to continue to grow personally, emotionally and professionally..One thing is not separated from the other, so if there is something they are always going to defend themselves from is «feeling controlled».
- They lead their lives, they make decisions valuing costs and profits, and they do it with the heart but also with the head.They will avoid the affective relationships marked by jealousy or control, because that goes against of their essences.
- They know that friends are the ones who allow them to enjoy life, which are part of their roots and those to care for, and when they are toxic.They are intuitive and determined.
They serve as a guide and support
Alpha women are pillars for all those around them .Inspire, listen, listen and advise objectively.They always tell the truth, even if it hurts, and they will do it without anesthesia.They value sincerity and the value of respect for themselves and others.
They like challenges, a life without goals to fulfill is a life without incentives
The monotony of routine, of a job where their aptitudes or sensibilities are not taken into account, or being in a marked family environment because of habits and customs, it tends to despair of alpha women.
They need to train, lead their steps, learn things, get things
It's not about competing or overwhelming the others, it is more about "challenging" themselves to know how far they can go.If today I have achieved this...what would happen if I also tried somewhere else, in another country? What would happen if I started a project more great?
Their active minds and their hearts eager for experiences, sensations and knowledge never rest. Some are very academically prepared women, others, without having a great formative record, They are examples in their environments for their creativity, their ability to inspire, to motivate, to mobilize the world to move it forward.
Now Tell us...do you identify yourself with these characteristics? Do you know any woman like that? Do not hesitate to leave us your comments and remember our article about the most kissed woman in the world.
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