There are situations in which who would not have wanted to have a guide that would help him get out of trouble in those moments of mental blockage, which sometimes occur at work or in personal, loving or family relationships? That's why Lifestyle presents you with 6 easy psychological tricks that you can use in an emergency.
Easy psychological tricks for each situation
1.Before a claim or someone furious...a mirror helps calm down!
The large commercial areas train their employees in specialized Marketing and PR courses in which they are taught a series of resources for Know how to deal with the most difficult situations with clients, the dreaded claims .
But in none of these courses it suggests to the person in charge of the establishment to place a mirror behind the claims desk , so that When the client arrives angry to present his complaint, he can see the scene and especially himself, something that according to psychologists calms them down, then unconsciously Looking at our own image is as if we were angry with ourselves.
2.When asking for a favor, raise it more as an offer
Very few people are fortunate to have everything In life, that is why the vast majority of us are forced to have to turn to third parties in order to satisfy our needs or desires.And in this arduous task it is convenient to have a certain commercial ability> to get what we want, a small loan, an occasional favor...Surely it will be easier to obtain if we present it as an offer , instead of as a request.
3 Before a great anger, wait a little to calm down the mood
When we get angry keeping calm is really complicated and this makes understanding between people difficult, which in these cases-even having a good apology-They are unable to articulate a word because they feel run over, so it is more convenient to wait.
Better not to overwhelm them with a thousand questions that are impossible to answer all at once, it is better to ask a question and wait for an answer.
4.Look at the color of the eyes of your interlocutor to achieve spontaneous and uncomfortable eye contact
Eye contact is very important in personal relationships show our attention , something that is not always It is easy for a thousand reasons: shyness, lack of habit, shame, etc.
In order to overcome all this experts recommend focusing on looking at the eye color of the person we are talking to as if it were only we could see.
5.To retain the information learned, explain it to another person a
The study techniques teach us to make a slow and slow first reading, a second reading to underline concepts and a third reading for the realization of the scheme that will ultimately be what we will have in mind to remember what we have studied.
However, it is much more effective to explain to another person what we have just read , in this way our brain internalizes knowledge.
6.After an appointment, do not give so much importance to what you said, think more about what you did and how you made your intended one feel
After a first date it is normal to review mentally every moment trying to figure out how it was.That's when we sometimes think… I could have said this another, I wasn't too freaky with that joke, etc.But the truth is that in these cases the applicant to romantic couple will not remember as much the exact words we said, but as we did feel .
I hope these easy psychological tricks will help you in delicate situations.
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