How to overcome friendzone when you want more than friendship? 5 tips

Being trapped in the friendzone or "friends zone" is not difficult, but something very frustrating and disappointing.That situation when you want more than just a friendship , when you fall in love with someone who only sees you as a friend, is sad and very frequent.But...

How to overcome friendzone when you want more than friendship? 5 tips

Not everything is lost, escape from the friends zone is possible .While nothing ensures that you can reverse as that person sees you, if it helps you out of that Awkward feeling of not knowing if you are reciprocated and you can continue.

You must be willing to get away

Spending a lot of time with that person far from helping you makes your situation worse.Get away and share with Other friends come first. Search for your own space and your own activities .Also, this will strengthen you in case your scenario remains the same and that person, whatever you do, keep watching you as just a friend.This is a possibility and you should be prepared for it.

Don't always be available

If you're in the friendzone, you probably do everything for that person , are always available p For her, but in a relationship both parties must give equal .Your way of acting only tilts the balance against you.

Ask yourself this, if "your friend" receives everything from you, just giving you their friendship: why change things? If you start to transform the relationship, it is possible to start reversing the situation in your favor.Let yourself be missed, that you feel that you are not always available, that you feel the change.Well they say “you don't know what you have until it is lost”, Doesn't it?

Show that you can attract other people

Create competition, show that you can be attractive to other people , date someone (who doesn't you are going to do damage and that he knows about your situation), remember that most people value something more when they do not have it.With this strategy you are not only looking for jealousy, what you try is to check something important.If that friend that you like so much does not It shows that this change bothers you in the least, it is a clear signal that you should start to be interested in someone else .

It can even help you realize that it was just an illusion and you're really not as in love as you thought.

Change the dynamics of the relationship

Probably Ar caught in the friendzone you do everything for your friend; For any favor you need you are always available, ready to please.This is not bad if it is something reciprocal, but if it does not start changing it.Ask him if he can help you with any pending task, to look for something you need, any thing, however small, will make you realize that something has changed.

The previous advice will dramatically change the relationship , will make your "friend" begin to seeing you differently, they will balance the balance, both of you will begin to give the same, and yes, there is a possibility that you will start to be interested in something more than just friends.

How to overcome friendzone when you want more than friendship? 5 tips

One last tip: Just say it

Sure , you could also skip all these coded messages to go straight to the target .The option to take a moment alone and go for a kiss always s It was an alternative to leave the friendzone, as well as just be honest and tell you how you feel.The worst thing that can happen is that I reject you, but at least you can end this frustrating situation of wanting something more and not knowing if you are reciprocated.

Are you in the friendzone? Tell us what you plan to do to escape it.

What do you think about these tips? If you liked them, you should not miss reading:

-8 Psychological reasons why someone will fall in love with you

-5 Characteristics of people who are very "in love" Do you identify yourself?

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