Harvard presents 4 ways for your children to be kind

One of the things that undoubtedly worries us as parents is the education of our children .While there has been some progress in educating them in greater freedom and love, it is also true that one more formation Focused on success and personal happiness, or on achieving good grades, it has led to the emergence of a more selfish and less supportive generation .

Somehow, get that our children are also good people is a challenge, because they must achieve for themselves-helped and guided by us, of course-the delicate balance between the "I" and the collective, between training as conscious individuals and as beings that they are part of a group, of a society.

But according to a study carried out by the Harvard School of Education, a project known as Making Caring Common where they interviewed 10,000 students (primary and secondary school) ), most young people think it is more important and he personal success and his own happiness that caring and caring for others, being kind and fair do not see it as values in the style of “working hard to achieve what you want.”

Harvard presents 4 ways to that your children are kind.

These researchers say that one of the reasons for this child and youth behavior is largely because we do not educate by example .If we tell them to be solidarity, but we do not move to help anyone, it is quite unlikely that they will do it when we ask, and this includes both parents and teachers and teachers.

Values and Ethics are concepts that must be taught through action, not just the word.Therefore, Harvard researchers made a "manual", a kind of guide with 4 important points to guide parents and teachers in the difficult task to make the boys become good people, solid laugh and kind.

1.The practice of kindness

No one is born bad or good, much depends on how the environment affects us and what we hear and see in our homes.But learning solidarity and kindness is also a matter of practice: encouraging kids to help others do their homework is a good start.

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